8 Wedding Day Tips Every Bride Should Know (From a Wedding Videographer )

Your wedding day is one of the most memorable days of your life — but let’s be honest: it can also get a little overwhelming. As someone who's been behind the lens at dozens of weddings, I’ve seen what works, what doesn’t, and the tiny things that make a big difference in how your day feels (and looks on film!).

Whether you’re planning everything yourself or working with a full team, here are 8 simple but powerful tips every bride should know before the big day:

1. Bring Comfy Sandals (Your Feet Will Thank You)

After the ceremony, do your feet a favor — swap those heels for something comfortable. A nice pair of bridal sandals or sneakers can be a lifesaver when it's time to hit the dance floor or move between photo locations.

2. Appoint an MC — Even if You’re Planning the Wedding Yourself

Planning your own wedding? Amazing. But don’t try to MC it too.
A professional MC (or a confident, organized friend with a good voice) can keep the schedule moving and make important announcements without you needing to be the one giving directions. It takes the pressure off and keeps guests informed.

3. Make Sure You Eat (Seriously!)

It’s easy to skip meals on your wedding day without even realizing it. You’re being pulled in every direction, and before you know it — you’re dizzy, bloated, and overwhelmed.
Have someone check in to make sure you’re eating something substantial before the ceremony. You’ll feel more energized and avoid any unwanted stress or stomach issues during the day.

4. Get a Good Night’s Sleep

We know it’s hard to fall asleep the night before — the excitement, the nerves, the last-minute prep — but trust me, sleep matters.
Not only will it help you stay calm and energized, but it shows on camera. Well-rested brides look more refreshed, natural, and confident in photos and video. Your future self will thank you.

5. Hand Off Your Phone

You do not want to be answering calls or texts on your wedding day. It’s distracting for you — and for your photo and video team.
Assign a close friend, bridesmaid, or planner to handle any last-minute calls or questions. That way, you can stay fully present, and your team can focus on capturing your moments without interruptions.

6. Keep Your Bridal Party Manageable

While having a huge bridal party can be fun, it can also lead to more chaos than you’d expect — especially when it’s time for group photos or coordinating entrances.
A smaller, more focused bridal party often means better communication, less drama, and a smoother photo/video experience. Quality over quantity wins every time.

7. Wear a Reception Dress You Can Dance In

If your ceremony dress is heavy or has a long train, having a second (lighter) dress for the reception is a game-changer.
It helps you feel more relaxed, and you’ll move more freely during your first dance and party moments. Plus, it keeps your main dress cleaner and safer from spilled drinks or dance floor accidents.

8. Smile — Even When You're Stressed

This one’s simple, but important.
I’ve seen brides so caught up in logistics and emotions that they forget to smile. And here’s the thing: your real, authentic smile is what makes your photos and videos come to life.
So take a deep breath, trust your team, and let go of the small stuff. You’ve done the planning — now enjoy your moment.

Final Thoughts

Weddings are beautiful, emotional, and sometimes unpredictable — but with a little prep and the right mindset, yours can be both magical and smooth. I hope these tips help you feel more confident going into your big day.

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